Today I am so pleased to welcome Macy Blake to Joyfully Jay. Macy has come to chat with us as part of the Coastal Magic Convention Blog Tour. She has also brought along a great giveaway. Please join me in giving her a big welcome!


How To Succeed at Events, Without Really Trying!

Hey everyone! Macy Blake here. Just home from GayRomLit in Albuquerque, and I’m gearing up for next year’s Coastal Magic Convention. I have a lot of readers who are worried about attending their first event, so I put together a quick list of tips I’ve learned after attending a ton of these over the past few years.

  1. You don’t have to do everything. This is the one it took me the longest to figure out, so I’m putting it first. When you’re at your first event (or your twenty-first), it’s super easy to get caught up in the excitement and try to do ALL THE THINGS. Most of us can’t handle that much packed into a day, though, so don’t be afraid to pick and choose. I usually pick one “must do” in the morning and another for the afternoon. Anything I fit in between is a bonus. Make sure you take time to take care of yourself so the event is awesome for you.
  2. Authors are (generally speaking) pretty introverted. Think about it… we spend all day in front of a computer, lost in our head, making things up. And then we go out and have to *gulp* talk to real people? As scary as it is for you, believe me, it’s just that scary and more for us. But keep in mind that we came to the event so we *want* to meet readers…except we’re introverted so we’re not going to go up to you and be like “Do you like me?” Take a minute and come up to us. We’ll be so thankful you did!
  3. Go see authors you’ve never heard of. My absolute favorite thing about attending events is finding new books to read. I have a feeling you’re right there with me. Check out the list of panels and go see one that looks good– even if you don’t know any of the authors. I bet at least one of them will have you grabbing your phone and adding a book to your wishlist.
  4. You’re going to bring home books. I know this seems obvious but… books are heavy. And you’re going to want to pick up a few extras, and you might win a few, too. Make sure you have a way to get them home. I tend to pack an extra bag in my bag when I go to events so I have something to put all my loot in when I’m heading home. And trust me, between books and swag, you’re going to want some extra space.

Those are just a few quick tips and tricks that work for me. Are you an event attendee? Do you have any tricks you’d like to share? Or if you haven’t, what questions do you have? Let me know in the comments below and I’ll pick a random commenter to receive any ebook from my backlist! (Closes Oct 31, 2019).

And here are some pictures from my recent trip to GRL!






Macy Blake believes in unicorns and fairies, in moonbeams and stardust, and that happily ever after comes in all colors of the rainbow. When she’s not busy at the day job, she loses herself in paranormal romance, living vicariously through her favorite sexy fictional heroes. These days you can often find her pounding away at the keyboard, trying to capture the magic of her own worlds. You can find her on the internet in the following places. She loves to say hi, so feel free to join the conversation!

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Macy has brought a choice of backlist book for one lucky reader. Just leave a comment below to enter. The contest closes on October 31 at 11:59 pm ET.

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